What’s a play party?

What’s a play party? Essentially, it’s when we take over a huge dungeon club withScreen Shot 2016-03-22 at 9.16.32 PM a bunch of other guys, and we do all the hot kink we’re into! All without worrying about our roommates or neighbors–you can make all the noise you want!

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We often use the SF Citadel–the region’s largest community dungeon space–for play parties. Crosses, bondage tables, cages, slings, spanking/fucking benches–it’s stocked with things we all wish we had! Use the equipment as hard as you want, then spray it down with Cavicide (provided) when you’re done.


Screen Shot 2016-03-22 at 9.16.55 PMYour many kinks and fetishes are all welcome, with a few common sense guidelines in place. There is no dress code, so if you want to arrive in street clothes, head-to-toe in leather or rubber, pupped out, or completely naked, go for it! Lockers are available–bring your own or purchase one at the door for $5.

Screen Shot 2016-03-22 at 9.17.24 PMOur non-summer parties average between 50-100 attendees engaging in 1-on-1 or group play: bondage, edging, flogging, electro, fisting, rough and sweaty action, and even vanilla sex. Our Folsom and Dore parties have set a new record each year. With an unbroken run of 200+ attendees, you’ll want to make sure you secure admission to those parties sooner than later!

We have a back room designated as camera-friendly zone, but cameras and phones are restricted from the rest of the venue. They can get you kicked out–don’t pull them out!

Screen Shot 2016-03-22 at 9.16.42 PMWhat do you bring? Not including drugs and alcohol (see guidelines), pretty much whatever you want. The Citadel provides the kinky furniture and the space to make as much noise as you want, but you should bring your own gear. Regularly, the party host, Mark Sade, is more than happy to loan rope, floggers, or other bondage gear to those who need some.

AScreen Shot 2016-03-22 at 9.16.05 PMre you expected to be in Dom/sub/kink mode the whole time? Not at all! There is a social area where non-alcoholic drinks and light munchies are provided. If the dungeon is sensory overload, switch over to the lounge, meet people, talk about kink or work, or chill with a new friend or a cuddle puddle. Remember: no phones in the lounge!

Above all, HAVE FUN!!